Whoever did not believe in foreplay is a fool and if there’s anyone who does not believe in after play, is a greater fool!
More often than not, we would really not come to know about something called a fore play, or even an after play for that matter. We approach fore play only after we’ve either got exhausted of the positions or even the thought of making love to someone we’ve been with a really long time. Imagine, you make passionate love to your loved one and what do you do, simply turn over the sheets and go to sleep. Yikes! Your love life sucks!
Why do we need an after play
Lets understand as to why do we really need and after play. There are phases of lovemaking that are considered to lead a healthy life. One of them is foreplay. The other is after play. Where fore play plays its role in inducing several latent feelings and channelising them for achieving a great orgasm, the after play brings in the element of being in love. Whatever do I mean?! I’ll explain. According to Osho’s teachings, if you’ve read his books that is, he believes that activity needs to be an extension of love not just be instrumental of some great cardio vascular exercises.
When you’ve had a great bout of activity that stimulates and eases your senses, research says that you need to let that feeling linger on. A caress, a smile, a smoothing touch, these are all physical expressions of love. And women would love it if you’d indulge in these sweet nothings.. Most men dive for the ultimate, reach an aroused state, blast with an orgasm and seep back into their pre-aroused state after they lose their respective erections. While the lady immerses herself into her feeling of ecstasy and turns around, she’s already faced with the snoring horns, leaving her in literal terms, "high and dry".
The difference between Men and Women
Women tend to snuggle against their disinterested male counter parts and prefer to lie in their arms until both of them fall asleep. They guys’ body because of the release of his excess heat and energy, he tends to go off to sleep instantly, feeling light and victorious. Because of the encounter, there is this excessive gush of blood rushing through the arteries in the area, that instant slumber is quite inevitable. Your muscles that have so ferociously tightened up suddenly seem to relax.
A woman’s encounter is quite contrary to her male counter part. Women being the warm irons that they are slow down their processes after completing their round of activity. So where does the love come about, you may well ask? Well, women understand reflexes faster than men. So a tight hg or a light snuggling up to the body of your partner is etched in her long term memory, which is why she gets a wee bit amazed why you fall asleep the next time. If you should push this snuggling bit into your RAM, of your brain, you’d realize that the more you closely caress, the more she responds, and in the long term, because we women are such sensitive fools, we tend to love you more than ever. It has also been proven that males at first don’t understand this and when she gives you a better and improved round of, you get more close, in time to come.
For a woman the best parts of are the foreplay and the after play. For a man, its the actual action and release of his energy that really counts. Its difficult to infuse the two. It’s not the actual part of climaxing, as much it is the anticipation and the finish, that’s all so important for the woman. This is so as the actual heady and light feeling spans for a really short period of time. A suggestion for those trying to follow the rules of after play is try having during the early morning. That way you’re not sleepy, and your body has had adequate rest allowing you to perform better, peaking your growth hormone to the maximum and making you fresh and energetic with the in despicable glow on both your faces.
More often than not, we would really not come to know about something called a fore play, or even an after play for that matter. We approach fore play only after we’ve either got exhausted of the positions or even the thought of making love to someone we’ve been with a really long time. Imagine, you make passionate love to your loved one and what do you do, simply turn over the sheets and go to sleep. Yikes! Your love life sucks!Why do we need an after play
Lets understand as to why do we really need and after play. There are phases of lovemaking that are considered to lead a healthy life. One of them is foreplay. The other is after play. Where fore play plays its role in inducing several latent feelings and channelising them for achieving a great orgasm, the after play brings in the element of being in love. Whatever do I mean?! I’ll explain. According to Osho’s teachings, if you’ve read his books that is, he believes that activity needs to be an extension of love not just be instrumental of some great cardio vascular exercises.
When you’ve had a great bout of activity that stimulates and eases your senses, research says that you need to let that feeling linger on. A caress, a smile, a smoothing touch, these are all physical expressions of love. And women would love it if you’d indulge in these sweet nothings.. Most men dive for the ultimate, reach an aroused state, blast with an orgasm and seep back into their pre-aroused state after they lose their respective erections. While the lady immerses herself into her feeling of ecstasy and turns around, she’s already faced with the snoring horns, leaving her in literal terms, "high and dry".
The difference between Men and Women
Women tend to snuggle against their disinterested male counter parts and prefer to lie in their arms until both of them fall asleep. They guys’ body because of the release of his excess heat and energy, he tends to go off to sleep instantly, feeling light and victorious. Because of the encounter, there is this excessive gush of blood rushing through the arteries in the area, that instant slumber is quite inevitable. Your muscles that have so ferociously tightened up suddenly seem to relax.
A woman’s encounter is quite contrary to her male counter part. Women being the warm irons that they are slow down their processes after completing their round of activity. So where does the love come about, you may well ask? Well, women understand reflexes faster than men. So a tight hg or a light snuggling up to the body of your partner is etched in her long term memory, which is why she gets a wee bit amazed why you fall asleep the next time. If you should push this snuggling bit into your RAM, of your brain, you’d realize that the more you closely caress, the more she responds, and in the long term, because we women are such sensitive fools, we tend to love you more than ever. It has also been proven that males at first don’t understand this and when she gives you a better and improved round of, you get more close, in time to come.For a woman the best parts of are the foreplay and the after play. For a man, its the actual action and release of his energy that really counts. Its difficult to infuse the two. It’s not the actual part of climaxing, as much it is the anticipation and the finish, that’s all so important for the woman. This is so as the actual heady and light feeling spans for a really short period of time. A suggestion for those trying to follow the rules of after play is try having during the early morning. That way you’re not sleepy, and your body has had adequate rest allowing you to perform better, peaking your growth hormone to the maximum and making you fresh and energetic with the in despicable glow on both your faces.
